When you are sick, I think it takes WILLPOWER to recover. WILLPOWER.

I want to recover.. i want to recover.. i will recover.. i WILL RECOVER.

… GOOD DOCTOR and THE RIGHT MEDICATION.

It also take someone close to you to shower you with LOTS of care, concern, love, attention.. and nice healthy food.

“Eat light food only!”

When you are sick and grounded at home, you need ENTERTAINMENT. - Hugo - Love love!
You need a COMPUTER WITH INTERNET CONNECTION….. and also… someone to help you clean Puppy’s potty mess when you feel dizzy from just getting up a chair.. - Mama.

Someone to cook for you, buy food for you… - Mama.

Mama best in the world.

You need a phone. - for dialing 995 I.C.E. (In case of emergency).

You need to carry a mobile phone and ID Card everywhere. - in case you faint outside or need help. Assign a few speed dials.

You need to know who is available easily and most of the time and will be “there for you”.

DO NOT LOCK YOUR BEDROOM DOOR. - Actually if i’m unconscious on my bed my mama will think im sleeping. -.-”

Mama making herbal tea for me now. Touched.

“Wah! Elaine! We all here at this table have friends whose ‘common friend’ with us is “Elaine, how many friends do you have?? I’m surprised how you know all them.”

…during prom comm gathering dinner @ Esplanade. For those friends who still remember me and occasionally invite me for a drink at Lunar or Kopitiam or for dinner… I really really appreciate it.  Those whom I stood up recently, Sorry… I’m not ready yet.

Why am I not ready yet? Don’t know! I even took a looong looong time before meeting my best friend Ms Ang again. Ironically, I have “swapped” lifestyle with someone I knew awhile back ago. He became so active while I changed to the opposite. The only way to look at it is that I’ve been through that phase before, so maybe it’s his turn now.

Not that I’ve stop being active, just that I’m doing only certain activities which I only want to commit my time to besides work. E.g. Roller blading with friends who happen to do so, tennis with friends who are keen to learn with me, swimming with K. Jr. Coffee breaks with Ms Ang.. otherwise, am not exactly like I used to just shower, change and makeup at 11.30pm and cab down to club. (who does that now if there is work tomorrow?) I still can meet up for supper if it’s really near my place.

I’m not anti social, I still can socialize with people. Just keeping lower profile after a few incidents of meeting people whom were just acquaintance but make funny requests.

I salute those of you who are on extremely high profile, getting a lot of attention, giving a lot of attention, having so much energy in work, play, fun, everything - everyday single day posting so many tweets to let all your friends know what you are eating, who you are with, where you have been, what you are wearing, how you are so mad at someone or something, what happened at work… basically.. almost everything - and i really mean EVERYTHING - maybe choosing only certain activities to post can prevent people from stalking you.

Time to change how my blog looks. Tata.

THINK OF THE POSSIBLE REASONS WHY THE PERSON IS ASKING YOU THE QUESTION!
Because only you have the answers? Because the person respect or idolize you? Because the person wants to get to know you better? Because your opinion is important to that person? Because that person needs your help?

Assumption is the worst because it could potentially create a chain of unfortunate events. Chain reaction.

When you ask a person something…

1. He may not have the answers for you ..because he really don’t have the answers
2. He may not have the answers for you because he is lazy to think.
3. He refuses to answer because he doesn’t feel the obligation to answer you.
4. He refuses to answer because he thinks you are nonsense. — most guys think this way.
5. He may lie.. because he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
6. He may lie because he feels it’s trivial and he doesn’t want to cause you to question him further - save the trouble.
7. He might tell the truth and you may doubt or believe him.
8. He refuses to answer you because your feelings and concerns are not important to him.
9. He doesn’t like to discuss anything with you.
10. He takes it for granted that you will eventually find out the answers for yourself.
11. Be prepared for the various scenarios.

For the person whom was asked the question..

1. If you avoid answering, the questioner feels that you are hiding something.
2. If you think that the truth hurts, lying hurts the person more when the person finds it out himself.
3. He you just don’t feel like discussing, tell the questioner to ask somebody else. Suggest someone whom you know have the answers.
4. If the questions are directed at you only and only you have the answers and you don’t feel like discussing, explain why you don’t want to discuss.
5. Why don’t you just address the person’s concerns???? Now that the person ASKED, it’s better that he ask than he assumes…
6. If you think that the person is nonsense… then stay away from the person. Don’t mislead them to think that you care.
7. If you don’t know the answer, don’t answer anyhow - don’t assume.
8. If you don’t know the answer, don’t ask someone else in a way that you might reveal who the questioner is. - Respect to the questioner. If  he wants to ask the rest he will approach them, don’t need you to convey the message.
9. If you have the answers, make sure you quote the sources.

For those who was never asked the question..
1. I know you can’t read the person’s mind. It’s not your fault.
2. Maybe once in a while you can ask the person if he has any questions for you? Do little evaluations with him.
3. ….. Nothing much you need to/can do yet.

If only I had…
If only i could…

You can’t turn back time. If only you have known today you will regret… “A” wont happen.
Since you are at Point B now, maybe think of how to get as close to Point A as possible. Work out something?

If it’s too late.. too bad? Find a new goal.

• No point arguing over trivial matters.
• No point worrying so much - just work towards solutions.
• No point criticizing other people’s actions.
• No point drinking so much - and damaging my organs.
• No point spending long hours playing online game.
• No point helping those who dont appreciate my help. — to them it’s too insignificant as new friends come along and do something good to them, they forget you.
• No point gossiping about anything or anyone.
• No point being angry at someone who is defensive and always think they are right.
• No point reminding a person of their uncivilized behavior when they are who they are.
• No point getting upset over bad people.
• No point doubting whether others are sincere — never trust anyone in the first place.
• No point pinning so much hope onto something which you have no control over.
• No point bothering about whether others are showing off their whatever/whoever..
• No point keeping in touch with certain people - waste time.
• No point wondering “how come people are like that… why is life like that..”
• No point complaining about work — if you dont like your work, just shut up and quit. If you have no other choice but to stay.. then again, shut up — because you will spend more time complaining than performing.
• No point talking back to parents — because their brains are reinforced with 20-60+ years of “experience”, which in their context is “i eat salt more than you eat rice”
• No point comparing who is better or worse.
• No point finding out who hates you/loves you. Just be nice to people, generally.

Lots of other pointless stuff..

There are other points around tho.. but those can be BONUS points.

• Sometimes someone has a point, I will accept their suggestions and review my options/reflect on my actions.
• Sometimes when you know there’s totally NO POINT in doing something, you gain BONUS points by realizing it early and STOP doing it because it may cause you more hurt/harm.
• Sometimes when you discover a new point and note it down, it helps you to remember it.
• Sometimes making your point clear at the very beginning will save you from many trouble/disasters down the road.
• When you have put your point across, do not assume others get it. As long as you know you have put it across clearly, that’s good enough. If others have missed it and use it against you, at least you know your conscious is clear.
• When you have reached a point of no return, look around. Maybe you have missed a very important point.
• Do not be too quick to point out people’s mistakes - it is not wrong to make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes but don’t make the person feel like a clown/dumbass/idiot/retard because everyone deserves a little encouragement to correct the mistake. You do not want to spoil relationships too.
• Go straight to the point because you are wasting the person’s precious time. Of course, there’s a fine line between “Go straight to the point” and “Too direct and end up hurting people’s feeling”.
• Do not anyhow point direction when you are unsure yourself. You will just confuse everyone. Doesn’t hurt to discuss.

Conclusion: Keep the good points, drop the pointless.

Here.

What I DIDN’T get to do in Tokyo:-

Disney Sea
1. Step on mickey mouse’s tail (Because that mickey mouse has NO TAIL - cant see any tail.)
2. Take picture with Chip and Dale. :_(
3. See little mermaid topless. …        …
4. Take the highest roller coaster ride.
5. Step into a palace and see Prince Charming - Or any handsome prince.

Generally.
6. Buy sexy lingerie/cosplay costume
7. Watch porn in hotel.
8. Visit Onsen (hot spring)
9. Visit Museum
10. Get up Tokyo Tower
11. Clubbing or pubbing
12. See a condom vending machine
13. Visit the oldest zoo in Japan
14. Take photo with a Japanese hunk
15. Eat puffer fish.
16. Ice skate
17. Drink hot sake.
18. Watch baseball game
19. Take photo with a Sumo/watch a Sumo match
20. Take photo in Kimono

Although annoyed by the baby’s movement, she remained seated… but she kept on throwing that annoyed glances at the baby. She also kept on turning to her left amd showing gestures obviously discriminating the foreign worker and to “show” everyone how stinky he is.

I think it is quite naturally people will take the center seat like woman A, but sometimes, they just do not realise that they are actually seperating a couple from sitting together. If you take a seat in the center, you also get DOUBLE the uncertainty to who will be seated next to you. If “Known 1″ is a good looking lady, then maybe if you sit right next to her you might think she or people might think you are just trying to sit close to her. I can understand.

On the bus, some people just like to sit near the isle.

#1 - if the bus is packed with standing passengers, then you get the risk of smelling or scrubing your FACE or HAIR against the FRONT-LOWER part (you know what) of the standing person right beside you; especially when leaning against something gives better balance than holding the edge of the seats. To the Men, you may easily be accused for molesting.

… and if the passenger seated next to you near the window wants to alight in the “crowded and messy situation”, NORMALLY, people might just lean back against their seat and let the person get out, or people might just turn their body towards isle.  This way, AREN’T YOU STICKING YOUR FACE CLOSER TO the YOU-KNOW-WHAT. YUCK.

#2 - sometimes the bus is not very crowded, but still “You” still choose to remain seated while letting the person next to you get out to the isle. FOR GODNESS SAKE, CAN YOU JUST STAND UP from your seat and MAKE WAY FOR THE PERSON?? Do you really like smelling or “sanding” your face against you-know-what.

#3 - if the aircon is too cold or dripping water… i can understand.

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The poor  struggles,
the rich’s hunger.

Money, the root of all evil,
Grace lacking in those ignorant misers.

Sometimes when you want to be in it, but something prohibits.
Sometimes when terms meet, you are not ready for it.

Sometimes when it is a hit, you think its gimmick.
Sometimes when it reaches the peak, you are still taking your pick.

Sometimes when you’ve got it, you dont treasure it.
Sometimes when you lose it, its too late to regret it.

Sometimes when you take too long to think over it, the chances just slip.
Sometimes when you think “she should be ok with it”, you are assuming it.

Sometimes when your mind speaks,  you seal your lips.
Sometimes when your heart beats, you walk away from it.

Sometimes you just dont see it, it’s actually right under your feet.
Sometimes when you’re in too deep, it’s hard to get out of it.

If you’ve started it, put your best effort into it.
If you think this is not what you need, dont waste our time on it.
No matter what reasons you come out with, how bad  you feel about it,
Sometimes it’s just… dammit.

Whatever…. it’s time to sleep…

(P.S. This whole entry is originally created by me… not copied from somewhere else. Bye.)

Release V7 - Ambrose Goh

Good to self talk as it lets you know you are still moving on. Every minute every second of the conversation with yourself means you are still breathing. Your mind is very important. If you are going to tell yourself negative stuff, then you are going to be forever thinking that way.

I’m living and breathing you are living and breathing and reading my blog, why choose to be upset? Dont complicate your life with more negative thoughts, everyday has its own worries already.

So… MOVE ON!

(if you dont know how to talk to yourself, talk to me or someone else. And if you refuse to listen, it’s a problem.)

Climb… that… mountain!

Good night all.

This is the chart I customized for my guildies (Just for blogging purpose, but we all know its not true!)

And some charts to be sent to their emails.

I know what you did last August, July, June, May ……………….

Escaped Convict A man escapes from a prison where he’s been locked up
for 15 years. He breaks into a house to look for money and guns. Inside,
he finds a young couple in bed. He orders the guy out of bed and ties
him to a chair. While tying the homeowner’s wife to the bed, the convict
gets on top of her, kisses her neck, then gets up and goes into the
bathroom.
While he’s in there, the husband whispers over to his wife : ‘ Listen,
this guy is an escaped convict. Look at his clothes ! He’s probably
spent a lot of time in jail and hasn’t seen a woman in years. I saw how
he kissed your neck. If he wants sex, don’t resist, don’t complain…do
whatever he tells you. Satisfy him no matter how much he hurts you. This
guy is obviously very dangerous. If he gets angry, he’ll kill us both.
Be strong, honey. I love you ! ‘
His wife responds : ‘ He wasn’t kissing my neck. He was whispering in my
ear. He told me that he’s gay, and he thinks you’re cute. He asked if we
had any Vaseline. I told him it was in the bathroom. You be strong,
honey. I love you, too. ‘