Rosy predictions

I have reached a point of no point. ^_^Y

• No point arguing over trivial matters.
• No point worrying so much – just work towards solutions.
• No point criticizing other people’s actions.
• No point drinking so much – and damaging my organs.
• No point spending long hours playing online game.
• No point helping those who dont appreciate my help. — to them it’s too insignificant as new friends come along and do something good to them, they forget you.
• No point gossiping about anything or anyone.
• No point being angry at someone who is defensive and always think they are right.
• No point reminding a person of their uncivilized behavior when they are who they are.
• No point getting upset over bad people.
• No point doubting whether others are sincere — never trust anyone in the first place.
• No point pinning so much hope onto something which you have no control over.
• No point bothering about whether others are showing off their whatever/whoever..
• No point keeping in touch with certain people – waste time.
• No point wondering “how come people are like that… why is life like that..”
• No point complaining about work — if you dont like your work, just shut up and quit. If you have no other choice but to stay.. then again, shut up — because you will spend more time complaining than performing.
• No point talking back to parents — because their brains are reinforced with 20-60+ years of “experience”, which in their context is “i eat salt more than you eat rice”
• No point comparing who is better or worse.
• No point finding out who hates you/loves you. Just be nice to people, generally.

Lots of other pointless stuff..

There are other points around tho.. but those can be BONUS points.

• Sometimes someone has a point, I will accept their suggestions and review my options/reflect on my actions.
• Sometimes when you know there’s totally NO POINT in doing something, you gain BONUS points by realizing it early and STOP doing it because it may cause you more hurt/harm.
• Sometimes when you discover a new point and note it down, it helps you to remember it.
• Sometimes making your point clear at the very beginning will save you from many trouble/disasters down the road.
• When you have put your point across, do not assume others get it. As long as you know you have put it across clearly, that’s good enough. If others have missed it and use it against you, at least you know your conscious is clear.
• When you have reached a point of no return, look around. Maybe you have missed a very important point.
• Do not be too quick to point out people’s mistakes – it is not wrong to make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes but don’t make the person feel like a clown/dumbass/idiot/retard because everyone deserves a little encouragement to correct the mistake. You do not want to spoil relationships too.
• Go straight to the point because you are wasting the person’s precious time. Of course, there’s a fine line between “Go straight to the point” and “Too direct and end up hurting people’s feeling”.
• Do not anyhow point direction when you are unsure yourself. You will just confuse everyone. Doesn’t hurt to discuss.

Conclusion: Keep the good points, drop the pointless.

I saw one woman A on the MRT 2 days ago. She was standing at first. Then 3 people sitting together alighted, leaving 3 consecutive seats vacant. She sat in the middle of the 3 empty seats. A family (of different race from her) came in with a baby in pram. The mummy sat down on her right and carried the baby.. The daddy remained standing as the seat to left of woman A was taken up by some foreign worker. The baby then started moving about.

Although annoyed by the baby’s movement, she remained seated… but she kept on throwing that annoyed glances at the baby. She also kept on turning to her left amd showing gestures obviously discriminating the foreign worker and to “show” everyone how stinky he is.

I think it is quite naturally people will take the center seat like woman A, but sometimes, they just do not realise that they are actually seperating a couple from sitting together. If you take a seat in the center, you also get DOUBLE the uncertainty to who will be seated next to you. If “Known 1″ is a good looking lady, then maybe if you sit right next to her you might think she or people might think you are just trying to sit close to her. I can understand.

On the bus, some people just like to sit near the isle.

#1 – if the bus is packed with standing passengers, then you get the risk of smelling or scrubing your FACE or HAIR against the FRONT-LOWER part (you know what) of the standing person right beside you; especially when leaning against something gives better balance than holding the edge of the seats. To the Men, you may easily be accused for molesting.

… and if the passenger seated next to you near the window wants to alight in the “crowded and messy situation”, NORMALLY, people might just lean back against their seat and let the person get out, or people might just turn their body towards isle.  This way, AREN’T YOU STICKING YOUR FACE CLOSER TO the YOU-KNOW-WHAT. YUCK.

#2 – sometimes the bus is not very crowded, but still “You” still choose to remain seated while letting the person next to you get out to the isle. FOR GODNESS SAKE, CAN YOU JUST STAND UP from your seat and MAKE WAY FOR THE PERSON?? Do you really like smelling or “sanding” your face against you-know-what.

#3 – if the aircon is too cold or dripping water… i can understand.